I was a bit heated in that last rant. But I did have a chance to talk with a couple friends about the concept of “moving on”. The conclusion one friend drew is that you’ve moved on if you’re able to be attracted to other people, which makes a certain amount of sense. Certainly, if you’re still hung up on someone, then nobody will be able to attract you, no matter how much they drip with sex appeal. Furthermore, depending on how important someone was to you, occasional thoughts about them are normal and don’t mean that you haven’t moved on, something that I probably knew myself, but was nice to hear reiterated.